"love is the feeling you get when the special someone finally comes."
who can define what is love? anyone can. some say it is when you just love someone is without a reason. others say that it's when you take the special one's flaws as perfection.
to me, love is when you see the special one, you just can't help but smile. they are the source of your happiness and sadness. you just want to care and sacrifice for the special one whole heartedly, without expecting anything in return; it's about the unconditional love. love is when you commit yourself to the special one, even when they have broken you inside umpteen times.
the two biggest problems in most teens: too much of over thinking and being over sensitive.
"love can make you feel like you're in cloud nine but it can also make you feel like you're suffering in hell" ever heard of this saying? yes, I do agree with this but what I feel is that we are all not at a right age to love. plenty of teens understand what is love and has loved some whole heartedly before, which is somehow a good thing. but what about those who hurts the one who loves them so much? all in all, at this age we are supposed to enjoy life, we are too young to handle all those heartbreaks.
of course love is not ALL about the special one. motherly love, it is "unconditional and cannot be measured at all". I myself show disrespect my parents, especially to my mum. we teens are all sick and tired of their constant naggings, but it is because they care. would you rather have a mother who doesn't even bother about your well-being or a mother who nags the same old sentences every single day without fail? some parents always say they will give up on us, but have we ever reflected on ourselves and thought why?
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next, the judgmental society.
yes, I am talking about our society now, about how judgmental it is but that doesn't mean that I do not judge, no one is perfect get that in mind. I am also a human, I DO JUDGE people in my daily life too.
it isn't wrong to judge others, but everyone has to know their limits. imagine walking in town and you see someone wearing an outfit which makes them look more outstanding, in either a good or bad way. we start having second glances or some even stare and laugh or gossip about you. how would we feel if we were the person being judged instead?
seriously, who doesn't wish to have a perfect look and figure? never be afraid to stand out. everyone is born as a unique person, and that is what makes them beautiful/charming too. however, the people who puts on thick make up/do plastic surgery gets judged too. yes, natural is the best beauty but if you can have a chance to enhance your look why not? why do people want to look their best when they are outside? do not forget that it is our society that judges; they do not wish to be laughed at, that is why they do whatever they can to enhance their beauty/charm.
life is never easy. never ever forget that everyone has haters. even jb or lady gaga who is so darn famous has thousands of haters.
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please take note that I am NOT criticizing nor judging anyone in this post, this is just my point of view in life. I believe everyone has gone through different stuffs daily so you do not necessarily have to agree with me.
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